Will Astarion hate me if I don't let him ascend?

No, Astarion won't necessarily hate you if you stop him from ascending, but he'll be disappointed or even leave if you refuse him outright; the key is to guide him to the "good" Spawn ending (letting him free the souls) using persuasion/insight checks to avoid upsetting him, or by disrupting the ritual in the fight, leading to a loving, equal relationship where he breaks free from his trauma, which many players consider his best outcome. If you force him to ascend (which involves damning 7000 souls), he becomes domineering, potentially disrespectful, and treats you as a subordinate, a path seen as selfish and evil, especially for a good-aligned character.
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What if I don't let Astarion ascend?

If you don't let Astarion ascend in Baldur's Gate 3, he either leaves the party forever (if you refuse outright) or you persuade him to become a "spawn" vampire who is free from Cazador but still needs guidance, leading to a path of healing and agency, often considered a better, happier ending where he embraces life over tyranny, though he still has sun sensitivity and hunger. You must convince him not to ascend; otherwise, he gets angry and leaves, but you can still free the 7,000 spawn without him taking the power, or kill Cazador and the spawns yourself.
 
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Does Astarion break up with you if he doesn't ascend?

In the Spawn ending, Astarion treats you like an equal, but in his Ascended ending, he treats you like a subordinate. He breaks up with you if you don't want to become a spawn, which I think if he truly cared for you, he wouldn't do. He literally thinks you're degrading yourself by staying with him as an Ascendant.
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Does Ascended Astarion hate you?

There are two endings with ascended Astarion and romanced Tav. Either you end up as his slave or he yours. Neither of you is going to be a benevolent master, the game is clear about the nature of evil. For player's comfort, Astarion doesn't do more than yelling at you but the implications are beating us on the head.
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Does Astarion change after ascending?

After Astarion ascends, if you romance him, he sees you as his property rather than an equal. He becomes paranoid, domineering, and lacking all self-awareness he had about doing what he could to not be like Cazador. That's the point.
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Baldur's Gate 3 - Astarion Thanks You For Not Letting Him Ascend (Romance)

Who is the hardest character to romance in Baldur's Gate 3?

The hardest characters to romance in Baldur's Gate 3 often depend on player choices, but Shadowheart, due to her complex backstory and trust issues, Minthara, requiring specific (often evil) pathing and potentially buggy interactions, and Karlach, needing precise dialogue choices early on, are frequently cited as challenging. Astarion can also be difficult because of his guarded nature, while Halsin requires extensive commitment to lifting the Shadow Curse in Act 2. 
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Is Astarion ok with polyamory?

In Baldur's Gate 3, Astarion can be okay with polyamory, specifically in a three-way relationship with the player (Tav) and Halsin, but it's complicated by his trauma and consent issues, with some players feeling his acceptance is forced or insincere, while others see it as a genuine expression of his reclaiming autonomy and finding an arrangement that works for him and Halsin. While he'll refuse poly with others like Gale or Lae'zel, his acceptance of Halsin (who is experienced in such arrangements) is presented as a choice, though his dialogue hints at underlying discomfort or a desire to please.
 
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Why does Astarion not like me anymore?

He doesn't see the point in being with someone who's just there to use him and doesn't value him as a person. If you make him drink from Araj, something that he very vocally says he's opposed to, he knows you think he was just a means to an end, so he stands up for himself and ends things.
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Is there any benefit to ascending Astarion?

Gameplay Perspective: Ascending Astarion makes him significantly stronger. He gains the Vampire Ascendant passive, which grants powerful abilities like Ascendant Bite and Misty Escape (Vampire Ascendant), along with an additional 1d10 Necrotic damage to weapon and unarmed attacks.
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Who is the most romanced companion in Baldur's Gate 3?

Shadowheart is the most popular romance option, Larian says. 51.3 percent of players of reached the final part of her romance arc, with Karlack sliding in second, followed by Lae'zel.
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Can Astarion's ascension be reversed?

You mean change your mind after he Ascends? You can kill and revive him, but he'll still be Ascended.
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Will Astarion be mad if I sleep with the Emperor?

Emperor romance: Amusingly, players who manage to romance The Emperor will always be caught by their companions when they go to sleep. Despite how disgusted everyone looks, getting caught with The Emperor will not have any effect on approval from any companions, including Astarion.
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How high does Astarion's approval have to be to romance him?

To romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3, aim for 40+ approval in Act 1, which triggers his offer for a night together after enough long rests or at the Tiefling party; be supportive of his hedonistic, self-serving nature, let him feed, and agree to his proposition to start the romance, but remember that keeping his approval high in Act 2 is crucial for continuing it. 
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Does ascending Astarion break your oath?

You will break an oath even if you don't ascend. Each decision breaks one of the paladin's oaths. There is no solution here which doesn't break any, but only completing the Ritual breaks all of them. You are actively helping Astarion destroy 7k souls for power - your hands are just as bloody as his.
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Is there a way to convince Astarion not to ascend?

Yes, you can convince Astarion not to ascend in Baldur's Gate 3 by passing a DC 18 Persuasion check, or a DC 15 Persuasion check after a DC 20 Insight check (especially if romancing him), by arguing he'd become like Cazador and lose his freedom, leading to a "good" ending where he remains mortal but free and grateful for your help, though you'll then need to deal with the 7,000 vampire spawn. 
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Can you become a vampire if Astarion doesn't ascend?

No, Astarion cannot make you a full vampire without ascending himself; the best he can do is turn you into a vampire spawn, which happens in his "bad" ending if you romanced him and he doesn't ascend, making you his permanent, subservient thrall, but this isn't the same as becoming a true vampire with independent power. Becoming a true vampire requires a special ritual involving Cazador's power, which only happens if Astarion ascends, and even then, it's a separate choice for the player character (Tav) after Astarion becomes Ascendant, often requiring a strong romance, as some Reddit users note. 
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Do you lose Astarion if he ascends?

Astarion will remain with you, but you now have to deal with seven thousand vampire spawn stuck under Cazador's Palace. Astarion's personality will change if you don't let him ascend.
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Can Astarion be cured of vampirism?

You can't fully "cure" Astarion's vampirism in a standard playthrough, as he's a powerful undead, but you can significantly alter his fate by convincing him not to ascend to become a Vampire Lord, choosing instead to free his spawn and find alternative, less monstrous paths, with potential narrative endings involving God Gale (if Gale becomes a god) or other powerful magic like a Wish spell offering hope for a true cure in epilogues or mods, though "Wish" can be tricky. 
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Does letting Astarion feed on you improve your relationship?

Yes, letting Astarion feed on you, especially the first time during his major camp scene, significantly boosts his approval, which is crucial for his romance and character development, but it's a story choice with gameplay trade-offs (you get the "Bloodless" debuff, he gets a "Happy" buff). While the initial bite builds approval and trust, you don't have to let him feed daily; later, you can offer him enemies or hirelings for buffs without affecting your character as much, or you can find ways to cure the Bloodless condition.
 
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Who is the hardest to romance in BG3?

The hardest characters to romance in Baldur's Gate 3 often depend on player choices, but Shadowheart, due to her complex backstory and trust issues, Minthara, requiring specific (often evil) pathing and potentially buggy interactions, and Karlach, needing precise dialogue choices early on, are frequently cited as challenging. Astarion can also be difficult because of his guarded nature, while Halsin requires extensive commitment to lifting the Shadow Curse in Act 2. 
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Can Astarion be polyamorous?

"Poly" in this game basically means "some companions + Halsin". There isn't polyamory as such, some of them (like Astarion) are just fine with you having a hinge with Halsin. Or at least they won't break up with you over it. To my knowledge, there is no way to romance two main companions at the same time, without mods.
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What is the 3 6 9 rule in dating?

The 3-6-9 rule in dating is a guideline suggesting relationship phases: the first 3 months are the "honeymoon phase" (infatuation), months 3-6 involve deeper connection and noticing flaws, and by 9 months, you should see a stable routine, compatibility, and potential for long-term commitment after navigating challenges, with the cycle potentially repeating. It helps pace decisions, moving past initial euphoria to assess real compatibility by seeing the "good, bad, and ugly" of a partner. 
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What is the 100 mile rule in polyamory?

The "100-mile rule" in polyamory is a relationship agreement allowing partners to engage in other sexual or romantic relationships only when they are physically located more than 100 miles away from home or their primary partner, often during travel for work or vacation, creating a temporary boundary for discretion and emotional separation from daily life. It's a form of geographical non-monogamy designed to manage feelings and provide a clear distinction between "home" life and "away" connections, though some find it a limited solution for deeper intimacy issues. 
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What is cowboying in polyamory?

What is a Cowboy? The colloquial term for a monogamous male who intentionally gets into relationships with females who are in polyamorous relationships. The male gets into these relationships with the goal of removing the female from her other partners and securing her in a monogamous relationship.
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What is ggg in polyamory?

DESCRIPTION. A term popularised by Dan Savage to define the qualities of an excellent sexual partner: good (in bed), giving (of time and pleasure), and game (for exploring and being open-minded). Play Partner.
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